Like success, failure is many
things to people. With a Positive Mental Attitude, failure is a learning experience,
a rung on the ladder, a plateau at which to get your thoughts in order and
prepare to try again -W Clement
Stone
A Positive Mental Attitude is all
that you need to cultivate a successful mind set. And when I say positive I am
not referring to “The Secret” or “The Law of Attraction” where the motto is “If
you think it, it will come”. Most people do not have too much of an idea about where
they’re going or what the end results of their life will be. Instead they simply
rely on imitating others and doing what others do. We tend to conform, hide our
true identities and label ourselves based on our outside environment. The truth
is we are much greater, much more superior and much more mysterious than our conceptual
mind. It is because of this that we are much more powerful than we actually
believe. This can be overcome by any person who chooses to embrace the moments
of opportunity as well as the obstacles that block our paths from time to time.
Life only becomes hard and unfair when we spend more time complaining about
problems and less time trying to create solutions. Life is not a succession of
playoff games and everyday should be treated like it’s the championship. Pretend
that you’re on your death bed and appreciate that time will not stand still for
anybody. The reality that we live in was created in line with our thoughts and beliefs
and as a consequence “what we believe on the inside manifests on the outside”. It
is virtually impossible to control the circumstances created by your outside environment,
however you have total control over how you react to those situations. A large
barrier to developing a positive mind set is that we place huge emphasis on people’s
opinions about us. Regardless of what people may say or think about you, it has
absolutely no bearing on who you truly are. That is unless you fall prey
to their opinions and begin to believe it yourself. Nobody knows you better
than you know yourself, so why would you accept another individual’s reality as
your own? When you focus on the negative, your mind will only continue to
generate more thoughts that are negative in nature. A key to developing a positive
mental attitude involves you making the shift from negativity to living a life always
moving towards your dreams. Continue to cultivate your brain with positive
affirmations. I personally use this affirmation “Every day in every way I’m
getting better and better”. Below are a few steps you can take to help you with
this.
1. Focus your attention on what you can do and what
you will achieve.
2.
Read positive books and do things to enhance
your life.
3.
Manage your time around high value, high
priority things.
4.
Limit your distractions and the time spent on Tv,
Social media, email, & text messaging.
5.
Limit your use of words like can’t, wont, and
never.
6.
Surround yourself with positive people who can
be a positive influence on your life.
7.
Invest in yourself, listen to positive messages,
and watch positive YouTube videos.
8.
Let go of negative emotions like anger and
resentment, they serve no purpose.
9.
Let go of those limiting beliefs and develop
some empowering beliefs that are aligned with your values and goals.
10.
Take responsibility for you own life and what
you can control
·
Your thoughts
·
Your actions
·
Your behaviors
Enjoy a new found freedom coupled
with increased finances when you make your mind up to seize ownership and accountability
for your life experiences. Remember it all begins with one thing and one thing
alone
"YOUR ATTITUDE"
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